The Process of Changing Wardrobe

          Is the process of changing your wardrobe a great pain to you? Wondering if it's a necessity or just a whim you can live without? Are you sick and tired of being stereotyped as this girl or that kind of girl even though deep down you are not that?

The process of changing wardrobe involves more than just money! It requires your honesty and your honest assesment and evaluation of yourself.

What are the reasons that stop you?

1) Is it Money?
              If money is not an issue, would you go out there and make that wardrobe change?
             The answer to this is that when you think something is not needed or not urgent, you tend to make it less priority in your budget. But why do we put off wardrobe change? Is it because you think it's just a whim? Think again, because your image says a lot about you and having the wrong image could send wrong signals to people who sees you and you pay dearly for it.
             I used to dress casually and in jeans and shirt kind of way. I never thought I needed much wardrobe variety because I am a photographer and an artist, I figured I don't need fancy clothes or business clothes. I wear these clothes even when I meet clients, I thought my work precedes me already---- NOT!--- what it delivered to my clients was that I wasn't doing well financially that is why I couldn't afford to buy nice clothes. What my wardrobe sent to their brains was that I dress sloppily, and that's because I wasn't earning well, therefore, my works mustn't be good. And so, due to their first impression of me, I couldn't even close a deal. Think about your image as an investment, you will be surprised how a good first impression could take you a long long way in your business and in your relationships with people! And hey, there are wardrobes that are stylish and surprisingly affordable!

2) Is it your Environment?
                   Does your environment suppress or even mock you when you try to look your best?
            Picture this, you dress nice and you feel good about yourself, and when you go out of the room, all you hear is: "Where do you think you're going that you're all dolled up? You're JUST going to the groceries, aren't you?"
            You shouldn't let this kind of talks get you down or shut you out from becoming the best version of yourself, anytime, anywhere. The truth of the matter is, you are woman and it is your nature to want to be beautiful. You are hardwired to want to look pretty. Women who mock you for not being a plain Jane is not in touch with themselves. They are insecure that is why they cannot stand people who get out of the rut they are in. The next time you hear people say that to you again, shrug it off and just smile. They will soon get tired of mocking you and let you be. As for you, trying to be the best version of yourself will take you places. People love to see beautiful people, things, and places. Think of yourself as someone who make this world better because you take time to make yourself look beautiful.

3) Is it that you believe you are not worthy to be pretty?
            It could be that someone in your life had told you that you are ugly, or that to make an effort in trying to be pretty is not for you.
           You are a woman, and you are born to be beautiful! Period. Everything is for you. You are a queen, a princess, and even if you can't see it at the moment yet, you are beautiful, made to be more beautiful. Anyone who says you are not is ignorant. It is important that you find that beautiful thing is inside of you, otherwise you will always be seeking to please other people so thay they approve of you. And guess what they have for you? Nothing! They don't have your best interest in their minds all the time, especially those who belittle you. So stay away from people who have not been inspiring you to be your best, shut them out of your life, listen to positive audiobooks, read positive books, watch positive media, and hang out with positive people. Remember, the media and the people you expose yourself to will become you in 3 to 5 years' time. So choose wisely!

So, going back to the process of changing wardrobe. We change wardrobe because of the WHY's.

The Reason Why You Need To Change Your Wardrobe:

- Boring wardrobes need to be spiced up.
Sometimes, you don't need to throw away boring clothes,
all it needs is a little additional accessory to spice it up.

- Change is needed when people see you and stereotype you already. 
You know---that nerd girl, that jeans girl, oh that tomboy——among others. As
 a woman, I believe that we have different facets that we can't be boxed as one kind of personality. So I think being stereotyped is always an insult to my individuality.

"We need to change when how we present ourselves 

is not working to our advantage."

          As I said earlier in this blog, sometimes, when I meet with clients, I rarely close a deal and I always ended with a defeated spirit until I decided to find out how come I couldn't make it when in fact I am confident with my skills. I later on found out that when you meet different kinds of people, you also need to work on how you present yourself.

       
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